True Friend

Can opening heart be so comfortable?

When you start

You have hesitation and anticipation

But when you actually open

It starts overflowing like water from locked gates

One goes on and on

And thy true friend gives you a patient hearing,

Thereby making all perturbed pains disdaining

Giving thy mind a complete solace 

At the end My Friend those personal delicate advices,

We're true antidote to all my vices

It was a heart to heart talk, 

With no pages left unturned,

But changing myself in return.

 My dear friend you have changed me a lot, 

I learnt to keep quiet but be firm

Be headstrong but to abide by all family norms.

The wheel of life keeps on turning, 

Darkness has to give way to morning,

Now, I fear not challenges and problems,

And have the courage to face them.

But my friend,now I do wait eagerly,

To share things in joy or sorrow blatantly.

As utmost realization tells me

"Opening heart to a TRUE Friend can really be very comfortable".

Wings Of Love

   

This poem is for my daughter for whom i live and loved  and cherished her phases of life. Yesterday on her birthday I was flipping through her childhood album and thought will pen down few words.    

My little girl, I see you grow.                   

A million things, I want to know

I reveal in the warmth of your love

The silk in your hair, your softness like a dove

Your girlish innocence

Now, gives way to adolescence

In my tender care u blossomed out

Growing and learning no doubt

Impatient to test your wings 

To try out many more things

Go. Easy my love,these years are heady wine

God gives everything, but in His time

I share your triumphs & heartaches

 Delight in your success, soothe out your mistakes

One day, into the women you'll grow

Right from wrong, you'll gradually know

  Your best adornment is your virtue,

Cherish it, for temptations will not be few

Strength of charecter& convictions,

Will gain esteem & affection

Recognise your weakness,

And  glorify your strength.

Be firm, yet gentle

Be strong, yet humble

The wheel of life keeps on turning, 

Darkness has to give way to the morning

Fear not challenges & problems, 

Have courage to face them

Have Faith in your creator

For He is the biggest comforter

My darling, I pray for your happiness,

May you have Love, peace & success .                             

If the spectacles with which you look at life changes your life is "transformed"

The Definition of HAPPINESS  in life is different for different people. There are many people who have forgotten the etymological meaning of this terminology....There are many women who are  more qualified than their partners but in due course of time have forgotten themselves.

A woman's life is like a river.  It keeps flowing throughout its lifetime, through civilizations and keeps serving everybody's needs without expecting anything in return. Just like how a woman keeps showering others with love and doing her duties without considering what she wants in life.in the process , then she compromises her ambitions, purpose, wishes , likes etc
So do u want our women to be like this river ? Suppressed! Deprived!  Used and ignored...like a disposable cup? People extract in the name of love and unknowingly they surrender to it....considering those feelings as genuine as she doesn't realize the motive behind the love.They are oblivious to the very fact that slowly they lose their own voice and at a later point in life when they dwell upon their past and that when the realization dawns upon them...."Where is my damn voice??"....They are suppressed to the point that  their souls are forced unto the depths of darkness...women are prevented from going outdoors and experiencing life..

My blog is designed for such people to give them a wake up call so that they can react on time & not get delayed like many of us who wake up @ midlife..when it becomes a bit too late to take actions as body and mind gets attuned to few things.One should and must love family but that does not mean u forget yourself By hook or crook u hav to have time for yourself to become self independent. In due course i will share with u all a story of a girl-child who was neglected from day 1 and how she survived. Its awful to see how  some affluent families still differentiate between a boy and a girl.

People's Attitudes Never Change! ;)